How should I start this entry?

Two of my closest friends right now are experiencing heartaches and heartbreaks. Who doesn’t? Everybody does but things are happening just in the wrong time. Heartache after heartache. And I am hurting too.

I have a guy friend who said that I am very emotional. Well I guess he can say that ‘coz he hasn’t been with many girls in his life. I wish he can live with my housemates for a week and I bet he can conclude that most girls are emotional.

I admit I am emotional – and very sensitive too! But when the need arises that I’d be the one who should be strong, I can be. But let’s go back to the main topic – guys. Girls tend to be very sensitive but guys tend to be very insensitive. Well I really cannot judge things – I am just saying these in my own perspective. Most guys I’ve known were very insensitive – not really putting themselves in the shoes of their women, or in the shoes of others. I would really admire a guy who can be very sensitive to the feelings his woman. Maybe my being empathic towards my friends hinder me from judging sensibly. Any sensitive guy out there? Introduce yourself to me. =P Then maybe I could change my views.

Why act sweet when the goal is not to commit but to deceive? I really hate guys who are like this. If you don’t like the girl, then don’t act the opposite! Leave the girl alone! No holding hands or cat-like eyes or warm hugs. No teasing. Please… For the girl to know that you don’t like her is better than for her to be fooled with petty sweetness and be dragged on the mud and in the end left alone.

To all the girls there, open your eyes! Be vigilant and guard your hearts.

Thank God for friends’ shoulders.